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Partner’s Workshop

12-Week Online Workshop for Partners A process group for coping with betrayal trauma. What can I gain from the partner’s workshop? This is a 12 week therapeutic workshop utilizing the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model established by The Association of Partners of

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Helping You Heal

A Partner’s Guide to Understanding Sexual Addiction, Recovery and Healing   What’s the purpose of this booklet? If you are reading this booklet, you are probably in a lot of pain. You feel confused, angry, hurt, and alone. You may

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CHS Position Statement

At Center for Healthy Sex, we take the following positions on the following issues: Healthy Sex We define “healthy sex” as consensual sex between adults that does not include guilt, shame or psychological distress. Partner Therapy At Center for Healthy

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Read Our Books

Learn more about the books authored and co-authored by our Clinical Director, Alexandra Katehakis. Sexual Reflections: A Workbook for Designing and Celebrating Your Sexual Health Plan Sex Addiction as Affect Dysregulation: A Neurobiologically Informed Holistic Treatment Mirror of Intimacy: Daily

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Books for Sex Therapy Professionals

Several great books have been written on couples sex therapy. Preview them here: Affect Regulation Theoryby Daniel Hill, PhD Affect regulation theory―the science of how humans regulate their emotions―is at the root of all psychotherapies. Drawing on attachment, developmental trauma,

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Books for Partners of Sex Addicts

Several great books have been written on couples sex therapy. Preview them here: After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner has Been Unfaithful by Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD and Michael Spring After the Affair is a

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Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is regarded as one of the most common sexual dysfunctions among males. Premature ejaculation is estimated to occur in 24% of men (Porst, et al., 2007). Premature ejaculation is defined as ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before or

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Love Addiction Test

The following 25 questions are meant to be a simple guideline for identifying the possible signs of love addiction. Love addiction is not an official diagnosis, thus these questions do not provide a diagnosis. However, your affirmative answers may be

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Sex Addiction Test

The Sex Addiction Screening Test questions are designed to be used as guidelines to identifying possible signs of sex addiction. They are not intended to provide a sure-fire method of diagnosis, nor can negative answers to these questions provide absolute assurance that the

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Sex Addiction FAQ

Sex Addiction FAQ What is sex addiction? Sexual addiction has also been called sexual dependency, sexual compulsivity and hypersexual disorder. By any name, it is a compulsive behavior that completely dominates the addict’s life. Sexual addicts make sex a priority

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