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Couples Surviving through The Wave of Sex Addiction Betrayal

Guest blog by Jeff Schultz, LPC, CSAT The moment a man or woman discovers a mate’s sexual secrets and betrayals is one s/he rarely forgets. From that point on nothing can ever be the same and the future looks as … Continue reading


“Sex lies at the root of life, and we can never learn to reverence life until we know how to understand sex.” ~ Havelock Ellis We think of depth as a descent to the ocean floor or soaring into limitless … Continue reading


“Only that day dawns to which we are awake.” ~ Henry David Thoreau If we metaphorically sleep-walk through life, we miss the abundance, beauty, joy, and wonder life offers. If we sleep-walk through our relationships, we miss the same. Your … Continue reading


“Love is seeing God in the person next to us, and meditation is seeing God within us.” ~ Sri Sri Ravi Shankar The word meditate stems from the Latin root meditari, meaning “to ponder.” Every one of us employs tools … Continue reading


“Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson The worst betrayal is self-betrayal. We often falsely focus blame on another, for to grasp how we let ourselves down can be devastating. Seriously, we can’t trust … Continue reading


“Sexiness is a state of mind.” ~ Halle Berry At some point in a long-term relationship, desire drops off and we worry that we’re no longer attracted to our mate or that we’re no longer attractive. That’s natural, because no … Continue reading


“People will ask you the question ‘how is life treating you?’ But my question is ‘how are you treating life?” ~ Rasheed Ogunlaru We can’t learn this enough: The way we treat ourselves mirrors the way we treat others. But … Continue reading


“I thought when love for you died, I should die. It’s dead. Alone, most strangely, I live on.” ~ Rupert Brooke No one knows the hurt of heartbreak until they’ve experienced it. The gnashing pain of saying “good-bye” to a … Continue reading


“Open your heart and take us in, Love–love and me.” ~ William Ernest Henley Every person possesses the potential for open-heartedness–for inclusive understanding and acceptance of another. The real art is to stretch into open-heartedness right when you feel most … Continue reading


“Love leads to present rapture,–then to pain; But all through Love in time is healed again.” ~ Charles Godfrey Leland Like all organisms, the human organism is encoded to move towards health and healing. But any type of healing takes … Continue reading

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